James Allen may have inadvertently started a new movement in 1937 when he said, "As a man thinketh, so he is." Scientists are discovering each day that our thoughts and our upbringing influence every area of our lives, including emotional eating.
Parents who sent their children to bed without supper, or forced them to eat foods they hated, sent a chilling message. Many adults live with the ramifications of food used as reward or punishment. Emotional eating has given rise to alarming rates of obesity, hypertension, heart disease, diabetes and other ailments.
TV ads showing pencil thin actors with perfect bodies, perfect teeth, perfect clothes and perfect hair deal a blow to the average person's self-image. Other commercials insist we can effortlessly achieve miracle weight loss in little time. These commercials are especially egregious emotional eating triggers for people who struggle with loneliness, stress or depression by making them feel hopeless.
Starting and staying with a healthy eating plan begins with accepting yourself, warts and all. Stop worrying about what others say or think. Theirs is nothing more than opinion. Instead of striving for the perfect look, perfect body and perfect weight, understand that perfect is relative, and you are unique. Choosing foods that allow you achieve your healthy weight helps avoid binging and emotional eating.
Learn to recognize whether you are truly hungry or need the emotional fix of your favorite comfort food. If you recently ate something, you are probably not hungry. Instead of heading for more food, do something to avoid emotional eating. Read your mail, clean out a closet, load or unload the dishwasher, or call a friend. Go out for a short walk if possible. Change your perspective with a change of scenery.
Know what sends you racing to the nearest comfort food. Emotional triggers include stress, anger, excitement, boredom, loss or depression. Keep a food journal and note what triggers your emotional eating bouts, and what foods seemingly satisfy your cravings. Your journal will point out your negative eating patterns, arming you with the knowledge to change.
Talk to someone you trust about people or events that are troubling you. A friendly ear is invaluable to a healthy life.
Clean out your refrigerator and cupboards and discard all unhealthy foods. Find comfort in other activities. Read a book, watch a favorite video or call someone you have not heard from in awhile.
Eat a balanced diet, making sure you get enough calories to avoid hunger pangs later. Fill up on high fiber fruit and vegetables, lean protein and low fat snacks. Instead of eating three large meals a day, divide your daily calories into six small meals. This type of eating helps you feel satisfied and is a boon to weight loss.
Keep healthy snacks nearby. Fruit, light microwave popcorn, low fat yogurt, and crunchy veggies with a low fat dip satisfy cravings and helps you stay on track.
Exercise regularly, drink plenty of water, and get plenty of rest to avoid mood swings that trigger emotional eating.
You will probably "fall off the wagon." Forgive yourself. Tomorrow is another day and a new beginning. Learn what caused your fall and have a plan for future situations.
Congratulate yourself for making positive changes that ultimately lead to a healthy weight and healthy lifestyle.